[00:00] Stress is an ancient superpower  that is slowly killing you. [00:06] It evolved as one of the most powerful  tools for survival but has turned into [00:10] a double edged sword in the modern world. [00:12] It grants your wish to rise to a gnarly challenge [00:15] or to work harder – but claims a  chunk of your life force in return. [00:20] Unless you learn how to use it right. [00:23] What is stress, why is it harmful and what  can you do to escape its consequences? [00:29] All living things strive for homeostasis,  a state where their body is in balance. [00:34] To maintain this balance they make adjustments  like moving into the sunlight or eating nutrients. [00:39] But the world is a cruel place  with death lurking behind every [00:42] corner and organisms need a way  to react to extreme situations. [00:47] This is how stress evolved – as a physical [00:49] response to a stressor – which is  anything challenging or dangerous. [00:53] Stress is a very fast, drastic change of the  state of the body that prioritizes survival. [00:59] An emergency program that lets the organism  push way out of its comfort zone to survive. [01:05] To understand how stress works in humans,  let's visit a scene fifty thousand years ago… [01:10] The Superpower Awakens [01:14] A group of early homo sapiens are huddled  around a fire – when suddenly a desperate [01:19] and starving sabertooth tiger attacks their camp. [01:22] Their leader, Urr the Bearsmasher  jumps up as time slows down. [01:27] His brain classifies the tiger as a critical  stressor and unleashes the stress response. [01:33] Adrenal glands pump out adrenaline that rushes [01:36] through Urr’s body activating  “fight or flight” mode. [01:39] His heart starts beating faster and  his lungs accelerate, providing an [01:43] emergency supply of nutrients and  oxygen to all critical systems. [01:48] Adrenaline dictates that his muscles  have energy priority over his other [01:51] organs and activates them for rapid action  – their strength and speed are ramped up. [01:57] Pain and fatigue signals are muted, [01:59] while his senses become super  sharp and lock in on the threat. [02:03] Urr perceives every detail with maximum clarity  and realizes the tiger is getting ready to pounce! [02:09] There is only a split second to react. [02:12] Adrenaline forces Urr to make  a quick, impulsive decision: [02:15] Without thinking about it he chooses  to fight and attacks with full force. [02:19] But the battle is long and arduous – the animal [02:22] is desperate and will not back  down, our humans risk exhaustion. [02:27] A new hormone joins the battle: [02:29] cortisol. [02:30] Cortisol is the slower, more strategic  hormone that manages a longer stress response. [02:35] It orders a total shift of all body systems. [02:38] Ramping up the fuel supply while suppressing  all non-essential functions like resting, [02:42] disease defense or digestion. [02:45] Urr's body isn’t his own  anymore, it belongs to stress. [02:49] Finally Urr the Bearsmasher  deals the killing blow. [02:53] The tribe gathers in celebration. [02:55] Their bodies shut down “fight or  flight” and activate “rest and digest”. [03:01] Wounds begin to hurt and  muscles cry in exhaustion. [03:04] It is time to recover and heal, bond and tell  stories about how they killed the angry tiger god. [03:10] Some fall asleep, others eat to replenish. [03:13] The tribe relaxes and  homeostasis is being restored. [03:17] These people are your ancestors. [03:20] When did this amazing  superpower turn into a curse? [03:24] The Deadly Email [03:27] Our world has changed so quickly and  profoundly that our biology couldn’t keep up. [03:32] Stress is still the same it  was fifty thousand years ago: [03:36] Sense a stressor. [03:37] React immediately and with full force. [03:40] Prioritize present moment survival,  make sacrifices if necessary. [03:45] That works well when you have  to jump out of the way of a car. [03:48] But most stressors we encounter nowadays  are abstract, acute and more numerous, [03:53] often intangible, persist for much longer and  usually don’t even require physical action. [03:59] The tigers of the past are  now angry emails, deadlines, [04:03] online dating, rush hour traffic or doom  scrolling the news and social media. [04:08] But our brains are built to  take fear very seriously, [04:12] so if you experience even a short  burst of anxiety over an email or [04:16] because you scrolled through twitter, the  helping hand of stress springs to action. [04:20] You can have dozens of these micro stressors per  day constantly activating your stress response, [04:25] even if you barely notice anymore. [04:28] While these micro-threats stack up we also have to [04:31] deal with bigger stressors like unpaid  overtime, angry clients, rising rents, [04:36] inflation and healthcare or tariffs and  chaos making our future more uncertain. [04:42] But the boost we get from stress  can also be extremely helpful if [04:45] you have to study for an exam, run a  marathon or complete a big project. [04:49] It is a proper superpower and can  feel exhilarating, even addictive. [04:54] So many of us end up abusing it. [04:57] Especially if you work in a competitive  field you may keep pushing and challenging [05:01] yourselves and others, relying on stress  to get your best performance possible. [05:05] The problem is that stress  was only ever intended to [05:07] be used in short spurts and critical situations. [05:11] If it is activated over days,  weeks and months with no release, [05:14] it becomes chronic stress, one of  the deadliest conditions for humans. [05:19] How Chronic Stress Destroys You [05:23] The price of chronic stress is the slow  destruction of every part of your body and brain. [05:28] As the stress cascade is activated over and over,  adrenaline and cortisol keep flooding your body. [05:33] Your „fight or flight“ systems are  overactivated while your „rest and [05:38] digest“ functions are constantly suppressed. [05:41] Your muscles tense up for a fight  that never comes – instead your back, [05:45] shoulders and neck scream under the  tension and you get pounding headaches. [05:49] Your digestive tract cramps and suffers, either  holding things in too long or rushing things out. [05:55] Your fat metabolism is disrupted and  starts slowing down fat breakdown, [06:00] while increasing fat build up in your belly area. [06:03] Your cells become less responsive to insulin  increasing your risk of metabolic diseases. [06:08] Your heart keeps pounding, eager to  supply your body with fuel but your [06:12] blood vessels aren’t built for this constant  overactivation and get destroyed in the process, [06:16] massively increasing your risk  of a heart attack or stroke. [06:20] Your immune system gets weaker  and stronger at the same time, [06:23] in a way that causes maximum damage to you. [06:26] The parts that protect you  from disease are suppressed [06:28] because who cares about a cold  if you have to fight a tiger? [06:31] This increases your risk of infections,  cancer and autoimmune diseases. [06:36] Meanwhile cells that cause inflammation  for wound healing are massively boosted, [06:40] inflaming your tissue all over. [06:43] Your brain gets rewired to serve stress. [06:46] Perceiving an ongoing critical emergency  it slows down calm reflection and thinking. [06:51] Instead favoring quick and rapid reactions. [06:53] You literally get worse at thinking  clearly and lose wisdom points. [06:58] You are much more likely to make bad,  impulsive decisions like breaking up, [07:02] eating junk food, or using drugs. [07:04] You become worse at solving your  problems while creating new ones. [07:08] Under chronic stress you are  simply a worse version of yourself. [07:13] If this persists your memory  and cognitive abilities get [07:16] worse as you slide into anxiety and depression. [07:19] So your chances of getting out  of a stressful situation in the [07:22] modern world worsen the longer  you are chronically stressed. [07:26] A hellish, vicious circle. [07:28] If you can’t escape it, odds are that you may  die earlier and suffer greatly along the way. [07:34] How to use Stress As Intended [07:38] Stress can be your friend. [07:40] In measured doses, acute stress enables you  to conquer mountains and push beyond your [07:44] comfort zone, helps you to improve  your skills and grow as a person. [07:48] And it can make it feel amazing  to perform at your very best. [07:52] But to get the good without the bad, [07:54] it’s critical that you properly wind down  your flight or flight response and relax. [08:00] Listen to your body. [08:01] If you feel stressed, you are stressed, full stop. [08:04] There is no universal threshold you have to reach  before you’re allowed to do something about it. [08:09] Next, ask yourself: [08:10] Is your stress response productive in your  situation and is there an end in sight? [08:16] If you are studying for exams or  moving house stress is a superpower, [08:19] helping you unlock your full potential. [08:22] But your health needs breaks  from “fight or flight” mode. [08:25] Be it meeting friends, working  out or going for a walk in nature. [08:29] Relaxation is not being lazy,  this is serious self care. [08:33] If you relax actively and regularly  you will keep stress from claiming a [08:37] price on your body and mind and  still be able to use its power. [08:41] If you can’t do this at the moment, plan  active relaxation time as soon as you can. [08:45] Without this stressing you out. [08:48] Ok, but what if you suffer  from constant unhelpful stress? [08:52] You can’t control your body’s stress  response, but you can influence it. [08:56] As annoying as this is: [08:58] mindfulness, like meditation or yoga,  is scientifically proven to take the [09:03] edge off stressful situations and to tell your  brain that this email is not a deadly tiger. [09:08] But the single most effective way to remove stress  from your life, is to remove the stressor itself. [09:14] Become your own personal assistant and assess [09:17] where tiny bursts of stress are  coming from during your day. [09:20] Do you feel stressed when you doom scroll? [09:23] Social media doesn’t show us what  we want, but what makes us engage. [09:27] And negative emotions make us engage the most. [09:30] So simply getting rid of the apps  or unfollowing stressful people can [09:34] actually remove a lot of stress from your life. [09:38] Especially with the really big problems,  removing the stressor is extremely effective. [09:42] If you live in a dangerous neighborhood: [09:44] move. [09:45] If you are bullied at school: [09:47] see if you can change your environment. [09:49] While this is drastic advice and may not be easy, [09:52] it will have the biggest impact  on your chronic stress levels. [09:56] So think about what you  can change in the mid term. [09:59] Of course there are situations  where you can’t just eliminate [10:01] the stressor or meditate the chronic stress away. [10:04] If your brain is stuck in stress mode for too long  it will get worse and worse at solving problems. [10:10] You may not be able to think clearly  to get out of your situation. [10:13] In these cases the most powerful  move is to ask for help. [10:17] Open up to friends or family  or get professional help. [10:20] An extra pair of hands can make a huge difference. [10:24] In the end, life will throw stressors  your way, this is unavoidable. [10:28] And that’s ok. [10:29] Stress is your superpower. [10:32] Use it. [10:33] But never forget to get to the other side of it. [10:37] That’s why we created a Health Journal. [10:40] We’ve collected all the latest health  science and designed a framework to help [10:44] you figure out what actually works for  your life – without pressure or guilt. [10:47] If you want to reduce stress, start  with the Rest & Mental Health chapter. [10:52] Or dive into Nutrition or Physical Fitness. [10:55] Each chapter is packed with  real science, lots of examples, [10:58] and inspiration to get you started – but you can  make it completely your own to fit your needs. [11:03] In the end, you’ll have built a  custom health mix that works for you. [11:07] We also made it as beautiful and fun as possible [11:10] (as taking care of your health should always be). [11:13] And you’re not doing this alone! [11:15] We’ll check in from time to time,  and we’d love to hear from you: [11:18] share your progress and inspire  other birbs on their health journey. [11:22] After the Gratitude Journal and the Habit Journal, [11:24] this is the third part in our  bestselling journal series. [11:28] To kick-start your health journey, we’ve also  created some exclusive Health Club Merch for you. [11:33] Wear them as companions to  remind you of your goal. [11:37] Just give yourself one month. [11:39] Try it. [11:40] See where it takes you.